Part 3: A Story That Continues: Gen X Women, ESSENCE, and the Journey from 1999 to Now


In September 1999, many of ESSENCE’s core readers were in their twenties and thirties, stepping into careers, choosing partners, planning families, and mapping a future that felt luminous. Halle Berry’s hooded catsuit and marine-blue eyeshadow offered a thrilling kind of recognition. The image said that Black women belonged in the center of fashion and in the center of the future. Those readers are now in their late forties to early sixties. They carry the same intelligence and style, but also the weight of caregiving, the realities of midlife health, and a sharper eye for what truly matters. Gen X has moved from trying on identities to inhabiting them.

This is a story about that shift. It is about what the 1999 moment meant, and about who those readers have become. It is about how style widened into substance, how aspiration matured into advocacy, and how a single cover still echoes inside a generation that refuses to disappear.

In the late 1990s, a typical Gen X reader of ESSENCE was climbing. She was entering the workforce in greater numbers, negotiating salaries in offices that were not built for her, and building families that often relied on her both emotionally and financially. She was inspired by artists and leaders who looked like her. She heard Lauryn Hill’s voice on the radio, watched Angela Bassett command the screen, and saw Naomi Campbell reclaim couture runways. She opened ESSENCE to find her own beauty affirmed and her ambitions taken seriously.

September covers set the tone. They were not only about hemlines and color palettes. They were cultural declarations that said style and selfhood belonged together. For a generation raised on both grit and grace, this pairing mattered. The 1999 issue said that the new millennium had room for a different kind of heroine.

Fast forward to 2025. Gen X is 45 to 60 years old, depending on where you draw the generational lines. They are not the youngest in the room, and they are rarely the loudest. Yet they are often the ones keeping families whole, companies running, and communities connected. They are the people who show up. They are also the ones absorbing the quieter shocks of midlife. They face tuition bills and eldercare at the same time, rising costs, and an economy that expects them to be both flexible and tireless.

Many are part of the sandwich generation, caring for children and aging relatives at once, often while working full or part-time. AARP’s 2025 snapshot estimates that nearly three in ten caregivers fall into the sandwich category, with the proportion even higher among caregivers under 50. The majority are employed, and a significant share are people of color. Gen X lives these numbers every day. AARP

This is not a crisis narrative. It is a truth-telling one. Gen X women learned to carry a lot without complaint. Today, they are naming what that weight costs and what support looks like.

The work story is complicated. Women in the core Gen X band have remained deeply engaged in the labor force. BLS data show strong participation among women 45 to 54, with only modest change projected over the coming decade. Behind those numbers are real schedules and real bodies. There are commutes, side hustles, late-night logins, and meetings taken from the car between a parent’s appointment and a school pickup. There is competence that goes unpraised and stamina that goes unseen.


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Wealth is a mixed picture too. Gen X holds far more wealth than it did a decade ago, but the cohort sits between the dominance of baby boomers and the velocity of younger families coming off pandemic-era gains. Federal Reserve and St. Louis Fed analyses show that wealth shares have shifted over time, with Gen X’s slice growing, yet boomers still hold the largest portion of total household wealth. The bottom line is that Gen X is financially responsible for a lot, often with fewer structural supports than the generations that came before. They are savers out of necessity, planners out of habit, and improvisers by skill.

Retirement hopes feel closer than they once did, but not always simpler. Surveys this year suggest Gen X wants comfort and dignity in retirement, yet many feel behind, given a lifetime of 401(k)s instead of pensions and the accumulated shocks of recessions. If the 1999 September issue felt like a doorway to a glamorous future, 2025 feels like a hallway with many doors. The choices are strategic now. The style is still sharp. The math is sharper.

For many Gen X women, the most transformative part of midlife has not been money or work, but health. The average age of menopause in the United States is about 52, which means much of Gen X has either arrived or is en route. What used to be whispered is finally getting a microphone, and that is changing the culture.

The numbers demand attention. A 2023 Mayo Clinic study estimated that menopause symptoms cost U.S. employers about 1.8 billion dollars in lost work time per year, and more than 26 billion dollars when medical costs are added. That is not a private inconvenience. That is a public economy. It is also a strong case for workplace policies that treat midlife health as part of human performance, not a personal failing.

Caring for others has always been part of the Gen X story. The difference now is that the care is heavier and the stakes are higher. Many are coordinating care for elders while their own hormones are shifting, sleep is inconsistent, and energy must be rationed. AARP’s profiles of sandwich generation caregivers describe a group that is largely employed, often stretched thin, and disproportionately women of color. These are the readers who once flipped through ESSENCE’s September pages dreaming about the life ahead. They still dream, but they also track medication lists, navigate insurance, and manage spreadsheets of appointments. Their power is steady. Their calendars are full. AARP

Gen X women are asking workplaces for simple, humane changes. Temperature control for those managing hot flashes. Flexible schedules. Paid sick leave that recognizes caregiving. Manager training that treats menopause like pregnancy or any other predictable health transition. The goal is dignity at work. The benefit is retention and productivity. The subtext is respect.

The women who loved the drama of a fall fashion issue still love clothes. They also love comfort that looks like confidence. Gray hair is gorgeous on purpose. Natural textures are celebrated because they are honest. Fits are chosen for authority and for joy. The Gen X reader of 2025 is not auditioning anymore. She writes her own scene.

Digital fluency has changed the way she finds and shares that scene. Pew’s fact sheets show near universal mobile adoption and high broadband use. Gen X may not post as much as younger users, but she is online, she researches, and she builds communities with intention. She can revisit the 1999 cover in a click and then join a forum about hormone therapy or a group chat about caring for a parent with dementia. The runway is now a feed. The mirror is now a camera roll. The conversation is constant.

The women who stood at the edge of the millennium in 1999 have a short list today. They want medical providers who are trained to recognize and treat perimenopause and menopause. They want employers who understand that midlife women are not at the end of their usefulness, but at the height of their leadership. They want policies that match reality, including research funding for women’s health, caregiver support, and a social safety net that does not assume an empty nest or perfect health at fifty-five.

They also want stories that tell the truth. Not only before and after photos, but during photos. Not only the first-day-back triumph, but the day that was messy and still counted. They want a media culture that understands that beauty is not a number and power is not a costume. They want what ESSENCE offered in 1999, but with the wisdom of 2025. The magazine gave them a place to see themselves. The hope now is a country that does the same.

It is fitting that Halle Berry remains in this frame. In 1999, she was a symbol of what could be. In 2025, she is an example of what leadership looks like. Her midlife advocacy speaks directly to Gen X women who are learning to value their bodies with the same passion they give to their work and families. Her recognition on the Forbes 50 Over 50 list reinforces a message that Gen X grasps instinctively. Influence does not end at fifty. It often begins there. 

Berry’s example matters because it collapses distance. The woman you admired on a cover is now standing beside you in a policy fight. The person who once felt untouchable is talking about hot flashes on national television and pushing for clinicians to be trained. That is more than celebrity. That is cultural repair.

ESSENCE remains a companion. In print or on screen, at the Festival or in a newsletter, its task has not changed. Name the beauty. Name the barriers. Name the blueprint. The 1999 September issue treated a generation’s image with ceremony. The 2025 conversation treats that generation’s life with respect.

A Gen X reader does not need to be convinced that she matters. She needs to be resourced like she does. That is where media can help. That is where brands can move. That is where legislators can do more than applaud.

The women who remember where they were when they saw Halle Berry’s September 1999 cover have earned a new kind of September. One that honors their stamina and their grace. One that funds the research that will ease their symptoms and train their doctors. One that recognizes that the same people who made the office run in 2009 are still making it run in 2025, now with a parent on speakerphone and a child’s text blinking on the lock screen. One that understands that glamour was never the whole story, and that advocacy can be beautiful too.

The very name Halle carries its own resonance. Rooted in places of gathering and exchange, it can be interpreted as symbolizing community, strength, and resilience. That symbolism mirrors both Berry’s evolution and the journey of Gen X women who grew up with her image on their coffee tables. What began as a name tied to a hall or meeting place has become, through her example, a reminder that midlife women are not solitary figures but part of a powerful collective, holding families together, sustaining workplaces, and pushing culture forward with quiet determination and unmistakable strength.

Gen X is not waiting to be seen. They are choosing their visibility. They are making policy, making payroll, making dinner, and making time. They are the women who turned a cover into a compass. They are still walking toward the future that 1999 promised, and they are editing it as they go.

This is the story that continues. It is a September remembered, and a season renewed.


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